Although I was born in the USA, I spent much of my childhood growing up in the Middle East, specifically in the desert of Saudi Arabia. Surprisingly, when I first came to Japan as a college student twenty years ago, my first impression was, “This place is just like Saudi Arabia!”

There are no deserts in Japan of course (although the Tottori Sand Dunes look the part), and there are many more bright lights, colorful adverts, and weird and wonderful gadgets, along with all the trappings you would expect of a modern, developed society. And yet, the way women were treated here did not seem so different to how they were treated in Saudi Arabia. They were seemingly only allowed to speak after men, if at all, did all the support work, and—shockingly to me—they always seemed to walk behind men when out in work groups. 

Over the past twenty years, women’s status in Japanese society has progressed on many fronts. In general, their voices are heard more, and they are thankfully no longer expected to walk behind men. There is also a somewhat greater degree of shared responsibility between genders, such as dropping off and picking up kids at daycare.

And yet, just the other day, a Japan Times correspondent drew the same comparison as I did all those years ago, posting this on Twitter: